There will be a lot of goals you brainstorm when it comes to your life. These are goals we will want to share with others around you or even sometimes on social media. The harsh reality that most of us need to learn is that: WE CAN’T TELL EVERYBODY OUR PLANS!!!
Main reason we tell others our goals:
ACCOUNTABILITY….MOTIVATION….EXTRA PUSH!!
You’ll tell somebody your goal [working out/eating better, a career change, etc.] and maybe even ask them to be your accountability partner, but the harsh reality is that most people are so tied up in their own life that they forget about yours.
Important reason we should not:
FEAR!!!!
When you’re dreaming of accomplishing a certain goal and you tell someone it gives them the opportunity to place their fear on you. This may be something you’ve been wanting to do for a while and finally got the courage to start the action steps towards it, but someone else’s fear will discourage you and push you in the opposite direction. The main reason they’re placing their fear on you is because they don’t have the courage and motivation to accomplish their own goals.
I watched a video and it explained 4 types of people:
- Talk the Talk + Walk the Walk: just want to brag about the things they’re doing
- Just Talk the Talk: pretends they’re accomplishing goals
- Don’t Talk the Talk AND Don’t Walk the Walk: no ambition at all
- Just Walk the Walk: lifestyle is proof of success, discipline, hard work, and patience. They don’t have to say it out of their own mouth; their life literally speaks for itself-no flaunting it
No matter how much you say it, doesn’t mean you’re doing it. JUST DO IT!! See how much you’ll accomplish when you’re going through the process and trusting it alone. Everything isn’t meant to be told to everyone. The real question is: Do you want to accomplish goals to improve your life OR just to get praised and acknowledged from others?
I challenge you to start action steps for a goal you’ve been wanting to accomplish and don’t tell anyone. Log and trust the process; you’ll get much more done with you being locked in and holding yourself accountable. AS ALWAYS, I’M ROOTING FOR YOU! Until next time!
