We all see to one day meet our “close to perfect” mate, fall in love, and live happily ever after. QUESTION: If you haven’t fallen in love with yourself or taken time to learn yourself; how will you benefit your partner? Say it with me people: SELF-LOVE!!! What is self-love? Self-love is caring about one’s own wellbeing and happiness.
Self-Love includes:
-Self-Care
-Self-Awareness
-Self-Acceptance
-Self-Appreciation
Benefits of Falling in Love with Yourself First:
-YOU LEARN YOUR VALUE!:
–when you know your worth you won’t put up with anything that will diminish it
-WHOLENESS WITHIN:
–In this state you’re genuinely happy and have your own positivity. You won’t rely on anybody/anything to feel a void
-YOU’LL BE ABLE TO LET GO!!:
–You’ll no longer hold on to baggage/past relationships/friendships that are weighing you down
-You become confident/comfortable in your own skin:
–No matter what flaws you may have you’ll be able to love yourself through them and work to improve whatever it is you can change
-Having Self-Love/Compassion for yourself can help your mental state:
–you’ll be a more optimistic and self-forgiving person
-STAND FOR WHAT YOU WANT!:
–You’ll learn to be selfish in a healthy way. You’re now your first priority and will have no problem standing firm on what you want and deserve
Most importantly when you’ve learned to love yourself you’ll know how to love someone else, but there’s no way you can love someone else without truly loving yourself. This will only lead to you putting your spouse over your well-being at all times, which could lead to unhealthiness and toxicness.
Just as well as you want your life-time partner preparing themselves for you; you should be doing the same for them. This doesn’t mean that you or your partner will be perfect; there’s no such thing. Even if it takes awhile for your partner to come your way; you’ll be just fine because you’ve learned yourself; improved in necessary areas; and you’ll fall in love with your own company. When you meet your partner you’ll be able to enjoy the experience so much more. I’M ROOTING FOR YOU ALWAYS! STAY SAFE!
